“You made me less safe in my own home, Julian,” I said, and that sentence seemed to break him more than any accusation of greed ever could have.

The case moved slowly, but with the recording and the forged documents, the “family misunderstanding” defense that Simone’s lawyers tried to use did not survive for long.

Simone eventually accepted a plea agreement that included a term of incarceration, and at the hearing, I stood up to give a victim impact statement that I had written in the dark.

I told the judge that the deeper violation was not the property but the attempt to steal my reality and my credibility by using my age as a weapon against me.

“I am here because I trusted myself and because I had resources that many other women in my position do not have,” I said as I looked directly at the back of Simone’s head.

I wanted the record to show that I was right, and when Simone finally looked at me, I saw only hatred in her eyes, which was fine because I did not need her remorse.

After the sentencing, I invited Julian to Sandpiper Point with the condition that we would not discuss money but would instead discuss the hard work of restoring trust.